Welcome to the British Second Wives Club

The BSWC was founded in 2005 to provide help, advice and support for women who are experiencing the trials and tribulations of being with a man who has a past. We hope you will find our site useful, or you may wish to join our private Forum, where we have over 300,000 posts from thousands of members on subjects ranging from being a step-mother, to difficult ex-wives, to financial and legal issues. The Forum is for second wives or partners only and we welcome women of all nationalities.

And They All Lived Happily Ever After

Cynics might say that only fairy tales end like this, but this ideal is deeply embedded in Western culture and is something we all strive for. The odds may seem a little stacked against second wives (or partners), but let us not forget that in the best fairytales, there is always some hardship along the way...

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